the-glasst-caticorn reblogged your post:20, usually male. Actually a cat in real life. Hobbies include writing and thinking about writing,Uhhm who is this? I want them to be my friend like now.
Anonymous asked: 20, usually male. Actually a cat in real life. Hobbies include writing and thinking about writing, flirting as much as possible, making awful but appropriate puns, and watching Let's Plays. Strongly interested in blanket forts and animal onesies. Heavily conflicted about various other interests. Extremely bad with people and relationships.
i knew who this was after two sentences um
v cool person with v good hobbies (especially the puns and the blanket forts and the animal onesies wow) so i would have to say yes
also i like cats
Uhhm who is this? I want them to be my friend like now.
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Parents, siblings, carers, cousins, teachers, tutors, mentors, aunts, uncles, etc, of young children: we have a chance to mold the gender relations of the future.
Such great advice.
I’ve done this with my kids since the moment they could each sign “more” and “all done” around 8 months old. More tickles? Or all done? More kisses? Or all done? More bouncing? Or all done?
When they’re old enough to play with others, you teach them to constantly check in with each other. Are you having fun? Or do you want to be done?
Is the shrieking laughter or fear? ASK.
Is the giggling from joy or nervousness? ASK.
Do you like being smacked with pillows? ASK.
Are you having fun wrestling? ASK.
And keep asking. What was fun five minutes ago might not be fun now.
Both kids know the moment something stops being fun, they need to stop. And they know that their wishes about what is fun and what’s not will be respected by their parents and by each other. They’ve known it since 8 months old.
This truly isn’t a difficult concept. It’s easy to teach it by example and it’s incredibly simple for children to do.
Are you having fun? Or do you want to stop?
Fucking teach it, parents. Please. ~JJ
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